The joy experienced from a person’s first sexual encounter can become one of the most
vivid memories that a person can have. Some people look forward to sex with pleasurable excitement, and others dread it. Some people consider it a conquest and their partners might have bad memories of the experience for a long time.
The first sexual experience is important in the
physiological and psychological development of the individual. Foreplay is usually the first step to the eventual rupturing of the hymen.
Often women feel anxiety before the first sexual encounter. They wonder how to reduce the risk of
pain. Defloration can sometimes be painful and requires some
courage. Actually, according to statistics only 50-60% of women may
experience a gap after sex. For others the fact that they have had a sexual encounter or a ruptured hymen will be invisible. The reasons for this
are several: rupture could occur unintentionally during exercise,
congenital absence of the hymen, or masturbation.
There are other aspects to this topic to consider. Psychologically, the first sexual experience can begin when the male feels that he is ready for the experience. Some men feel as though they are ready younger than others. The process of
defloration is physiologically recommended
when young women begin to produce particular substance that lubricates the
sex organs for easy penetration. Some young women use special lubricants that are available for sale. Statistics indicate that the average age of
defloration in general is 16 and older. In Europe, the “oldest”
countries are the Czech Republic and Iceland, and the young ladies are 15. In Ukraine and France they are
16. In Italy the women are 20 years old
In order to prevent having a negative first time, it is important to have some tips beforehand. A psychologically shackled man will have trouble getting the female to relax. Is there any real reason to
worry? Complete this little exercise. According to statistics, 60% of women
feel the defloration. Among them, half feel some pain. Then the number drops to 30%.
Now, take into account the fact that there are specific recommendations
for the first sexual experience, which will help greatly during the process. This figure is
difficult to calculate, but the 30% is quite reduced.
There is still an unfortunate percent of women who actually
experience discomfort. So is there reason to worry?
1. So psychological readiness, a lack of fear and a willingness to
break the hymen provides a solid foundation for ease of
2. During intercourse lubricants can
3. Use foreplay to
bring your partner to a high level of excitement. The foreplay can help your partner focus on pleasant sensations and
distract from the pain. It is important to perform defloration with foreplay.
4. Poses. Special positions that are recommended by doctors can be very
helpful when attempting to break the hymen. One pose is recommended, because
it contains a key element for all first sex poses. Use the bent and extended
knee as a pose. This pose is beneficial, because she herself controls the
movements and correlates them with her feelings.
A pose that relaxes muscles is also helpful. Consider using a pose in which the male regulates
movement and direction.
Another option for a position is lower than recommended in the event that the
vagina is located close to the rectum. The strategy is similar to the previous
5. Showing posture is not axiomatic. Woman in accordance with the guy
should choose a position which is most comfortable for her.
Thus we see where there is a time when a guy can show how much he cares for his partner as well as his skill during the process. His job is primarily to be gentle and sensitive during defloration. In particular, he must arrange to bring excitement, so to speak.